You marry Vecchio and I'll kill you! I mean -- my very best wishes to both of you, of course. *koff koff*

The Buffy dreams also often have this element of "this is a TV show" in them. In one, I was part of the Scooby gang and Xander, Jonathan (*sniff*), and I went to the mall to investigate this odd supernatural disturbance. But we couldn't find anything. So I was explaining to Xander that I was very apprehensive because by this point in the episode, we should be in a big fight and we weren't yet.