I've discovered that one can discuss semantics until there's no more bandwidth left in all of cyberspace, and a discouraging number of people will still continue to equate *any* feedback that is not praise as a flame.

This applies to Usenet, moderated critique lists and fora, and private correspondence.

Someone will always read in sarcasm where none is meant, or interpret neutral commentary as hostile. Which is why I visit fandom_wank when I get bored. ;)